I was at a friends’ wedding in Chicago last weekend and they did something I’ve never see done before.  They had all of the lights shut off and asked the guests to illuminate their first dance with the lights from their smart phones.  The result was that all (well mostly all) of the guests watched them dance.  Which I loved because folks these days are obsessed with getting their own photos and not being present in the moment.  I find it rather sad.  The other result was that visually it was really interesting!  Congratulations Jack and Maggie!